CODEPENDENCY.

Why must it be so hard to be Real with yourself,,,,,,,

  Explaining yourself  24/7 in said friendship's/Relationships can be hard..is something no one should do. but a lot of us do it.. Weather Friendship/ Realationship/ acquaintances. If you do it 24/7 you

yourself make it toxic, If it wasn't you... it wouldn't be...  SO WE OURSELF ALLOW IT TO BE CODEPENDENCY.

( Twist in friendship) Forgeting yourself, and trying to prove yourself.. So if your trying to prove something.. You Explan yourself away. Might be fun in all, But at a time you need to understand you, not them... we need to understand this we are in charge of us.not anyone but us.

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As i've seen before, People's relationship's/ Friendship's/, We need to only let it feed itself for a while, You can go back.. Once Codependency'' Is out

However it's Tricky to find out what Codependency is

 

So here's the Basics'' Codependent relationships are a type of dysfunctional helping relationship where one person supports or enables another person's addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement. Among the core characteristics of codependency, the most common theme is an excessive reliance on other people for approval and identity.

 

Approval and identity. is what we all work hard to get, But if in Christ we should know we don't need to work for it. Therefore Codependency isn't what God planned  for you, So what is off. I Challenge you once you see it as what it is, Give yourself time away, Get away for a while work on you, Do thing's for you. Love yourself...….. 

 

CODEPENDENCY. is going to keep us away from looking at us, loving  us,,

  

 

CODEPENDENCY. is us proving our self, To whomever we are  like this with

WE FORGIVE YOU FOR LETING ME DO THIS, AND LOSE MYSELF.PROVE MYSELF. AND NOT STOPPING   IT, LETTING US HAVE THIS ACTION WITH YOU

I FORGIVE YOU FOR TOYING WITH IT

AND NOT SEEING IT FOR WHAT IT WAS.....Forgive and take time away, set boundaries to free      you both!!!

 

I Have   low tone Cerebral  palsy, I am a brain injury survivor and I see this with a lot of us, I've been in one for a while and would like to Reach some other's and help them understand this, So if you liked this Comment I'd love to hear from you!!!!!