Codependency-- /Phase two/Mark of Love..
Could it be Love or just a Dead end??
No matter what you feel in a dead end relationship. do the opposite, if it has to do with friendship.it isn't necessarily a bad thing to do the opposite from what most will do. And want you to do, it's your say, Even so if Love is included..
Maybe it's Codependent, AKA Toxic Love. or maybe it's just a part of people pleasing what matters is you know yourself when deciding what do in any situation. Don't just do it to please people.do it if it pleases you by all means, Take a little time away at multiple different points check in with yourself and what's important. Could be different each time or stay the same. But on every intimate level, you need to check in on your own grounds
Lay it down, mark of Love number two!
.In any form of Relationship!
1.Know your ground, people pleasing and codependency isn't the same.
2.Intimacy in any form check in is mandatory....
Meaning you give yourself the taking care of needed.
3.Set boundaries in speech ( If it's physical that two
May ask why does it Matter? To take in Consideration, Could my Codependent, Behavior be grounded by just love.. it almost always is just that, We think of. Oh it's ok. I Just Love them so much...… BINGO And that keep's it going,, in different views in life I've seen, We cover it up with Those Four L-e-t-t-e-r-s Constantly telling ourselves, This is just what Love does but no it's a False View of Love we bought into, We Teach the opposite of what Love is.
Coming from Jesus, Love keeps no Records of Wrong? Codependent, is just that, A Record of wrong that is done, in said Relationship.
But Jesus say's Love is just, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth..
Give Jesus your Relationship!!!
Many times in conversation with Co Worker/Friend/Spouse you will hear them say but it wasn't intentional. I didn't mean it.
Wetzel says
your actions may unintentionally worsen a codependent relationship, . "Sometimes people delude themselves into thinking they are helping a codependent partner by continuing to cater to his or her anxiety ,"
I'll end this here and if anyone doesn't want to Hear Codependency/ Phase three/ and four/ Mark of Love...Shoot me out, This is a intense matter I'd like to write more on.
Hear me out Love and read up and let me help you!! ^_-
May ask why does it Matter? To take in Consideration, Could my Codependent, Behavior be grounded by just love.. it almost always is just that, We think of. Oh it's ok. I Just Love them so much...… BINGO And that keep's it going,, in different views in life I've seen, We cover it up with Those Four L-e-t-t-e-r-s Constantly telling ourselves, This is just what Love does but no it's a False View of Love we bought into, We Teach the opposite of what Love is.
Coming from Jesus, Love keeps no Records of Wrong? Codependent, is just that, A Record of wrong that is done, in said Relationship.
But Jesus say's Love is just, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth..
Give Jesus your Relationship!!!
Many times in conversation with Co Worker/Friend/Spouse you will hear them say but it wasn't intentional. I didn't mean it.
Wetzel says
your actions may unintentionally worsen a codependent relationship, . "Sometimes people delude themselves into thinking they are helping a codependent partner by continuing to cater to his or her anxiety ,"
I'll end this here and if anyone doesn't want to Hear Codependency/ Phase three/ and four/ Mark of Love...Shoot me out, This is a intense matter I'd like to write more on.
Hear me out Love and read up and let me help you!! ^_-
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