'Whispers of the Most high''

 If you can talk about your ''Codependency' with the  partner of Relationship, do it but be mindful a Codependent partner might respond in a way to get a Raise out of you and toy with your Emotion's..or make you think otherwise or that you just Misunderstood...,  a  Codependent Friendship is the same it's like a Game of Twister,  on both, You can feel as if it's all fun in games, But  if Tear's fill your eye's, and in your mind,  The Conversation make's you Confused as hell.  For them it's a play your  in/ their play..  s imply act the part.. In our Interacting with  Codependent partner, We  put on a act for  them, we fear losing them. So we don't speak up/Nor call them out, We Fear their Rejection and push away from honesty with them on subject, If your Reading  your probably  in it/ Twisting in Conversasion in acton as well.. it all get's Aimed on you.Cause they know your Dependend on them. As a Women is...

Don't bleed in front of a shark ....One moment of bleeding will make all they see, is bleeding, phase three of Codependency--  Yes Correct this is the People who feed of a Codependency-- in said Friendship/ Relationship. They see your fault's, Call you out, Play on your Emotions' Refuse to let it, Change Them …  it may be cute in all but your the one getting hurt not them....   ''Let  this Change you''   Some Codependent Relationship/friendships. Will never Change  so it's up to us when we see the Truth'' Some may. But most don't' We can let it feed off of us or we can give it up/ give it  The time away/AND RESIST THE  SAME ACTION'S THEY AIM OUR WAY AND HOW WE REACT TO IT..... Or we can stay, Rewind and replay, but  you can not change them, you can only change you here's 5 tips on/ Changing your ways   1. Step one. Might seem like Enough time away but if they Refuse to change you need to keep the time away as...

My start of this blog is a Song that Relates to my feeling's As she sing's my life is what I'm Fighting for!! And as of now I feel that most now, A near Death accident is a Awakening to something you need to understand.   ?So what do we need to know? I've never wanted to Speak of what I deal with my Mild C-P, and now I'm finding that a life with the shame of coming out with what you deal with is not a life God Intended. Even though my case is a Low case doesn't make hiding it ok.... As I've been Awakened I realized,     as for those reading this be at peace with yourself, and don't hid any of your failing's.  I Grew up Constantly having Accident's/ And falling down in High school, It was going from the Dr's to home.  Then back to the Dr's/ From early on it was Constant Physical therapy.... As of now I'm back to Physical therapy..... And as Hard as it is to be back . I'm Glad because, I now see what I was like then/The Girl ...

Could it be Love or just a Dead end?? No matter what you feel in a dead end relationship. do the opposite, if it has to do with friendship.it isn't necessarily a bad thing to do the opposite from what most will do. And want you to do, it's your say, Even so if Love is included.. Maybe it's Codependent,  AKA Toxic Love. or maybe it's just a part of people pleasing what matters is you know yourself when deciding what do in any situation. Don't just do it to please people.do it if it pleases you by all means, Take a little time away at multiple different points check in with yourself and what's important. Could be different each time or stay the same. But on every intimate level, you need to check in on your own grounds Lay it down, mark of Love number two! .In any form of Relationship! 1.Know your ground, people pleasing and codependency isn't the same. 2.Intimacy in any form check in is mandatory. ... Meaning you give yourself the taking care of ne...

Why must it be so hard to be Real with yourself,,,,,,,   Explaining yourself  24/7 in said friendship's/Relationships can be hard..is something no one should do. but a lot of us do it.. Weather Friendship/ Realationship/ acquaintances. If you do it 24/7 you yourself make it toxic, If it wasn't you... it wouldn't be...  SO WE OURSELF ALLOW IT TO BE CODEPENDENCY. ( Twist in friendship) Forgeting yourself, and trying to prove yourself.. So if your trying to prove something.. You Explan yourself away. Might be fun in all, But at a time you need to understand you, not them... we need to understand this we are in charge of us.not anyone but us. , As i've seen before, People's relationship's/ Friendship's/, We need to only let it feed itself for a while, You can go back.. Once Codependency'' Is out However it's Tricky to find out what Codependency is   So here's the Basics'' Codependent relations...