''Codependency. Phase 6/7, Stop The First Responder act, Ball is in your Court.Now
As most of us Women are we're in Fear of losing, said friendship/ Relationship/ at times so we become the first responder in how our Codependent relationships as well even without it being Codependent. As Ladies it's our job not to be a first Responder in a opposite sex relationship, Tip on Fighting for Change don't respond first...Let him initiate. if your anything like a dominant lady Here's
a tip
on how to Fight for said Codependent Friendship/ Relationship with the opposite sex. let them initiate first if you both still want it, you both will work for it, and if one is doing all the initiating it won't end..so if you haven't given them time to dwell on it, and consider it needing a change after talking with one another about it being Codependent. Step back and wait for a change!!
Ball is in your Court (;
It might be hard with a fear of losing them but you'll see how much they want it, Words are of little with no Action behind them, the Talk is Cheap so understand how to make a new, in how you Respond, Could be you both are learning to better communicate directly with one another, At times you have to understand yourself in any Relationship, Your way of interacting and communicating. All things worth Fighting for takes understanding both, As a Clock changes the time, Our mind's change our Thought process
Therefore Check ins, and steps back, are needed constantly in any Relationship it's Mandatory.. and then once they do the initiation you will know you both want it, You have to know if both want it to change enough at least then it's 50/50 so we have to do the Simply thing's in order for Change to happen ok it might seem really hard and not at all Simply but as the Clock Changes the time, So will the time pass and it will get better,
be much more Easy given time to Fight for it,, if both fight for it it's gonna be change that's made... As time passes you will know..
a tip
on how to Fight for said Codependent Friendship/ Relationship with the opposite sex. let them initiate first if you both still want it, you both will work for it, and if one is doing all the initiating it won't end..so if you haven't given them time to dwell on it, and consider it needing a change after talking with one another about it being Codependent. Step back and wait for a change!!
Ball is in your Court (;
It might be hard with a fear of losing them but you'll see how much they want it, Words are of little with no Action behind them, the Talk is Cheap so understand how to make a new, in how you Respond, Could be you both are learning to better communicate directly with one another, At times you have to understand yourself in any Relationship, Your way of interacting and communicating. All things worth Fighting for takes understanding both, As a Clock changes the time, Our mind's change our Thought process
Therefore Check ins, and steps back, are needed constantly in any Relationship it's Mandatory.. and then once they do the initiation you will know you both want it, You have to know if both want it to change enough at least then it's 50/50 so we have to do the Simply thing's in order for Change to happen ok it might seem really hard and not at all Simply but as the Clock Changes the time, So will the time pass and it will get better,
be much more Easy given time to Fight for it,, if both fight for it it's gonna be change that's made... As time passes you will know..
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