'Whispers of the Most high''

As  most of us  Women are we're in Fear of losing, said friendship/ Relationship/ at times so we become the first responder in how our  Codependent relationships  as well  even without it being    Codependent. As Ladies it's our job not to be a first Responder in  a opposite sex relationship, Tip on Fighting for Change don't respond first...Let him initiate .  if your anything like a dominant lady Here's   a tip   on how to Fight for said      Codependent Friendship/ Relationship with the  opposite sex.  let them  initiate first if you both still want it, you both will work for it, and if one is doing all the initiating it won't end..so if you haven't given them time to dwell on it, and consider it needing a change after talking with one another about it being  Codependent. Step back and wait for a change!!   Ball is in your Court (;   It might be hard with a fear of losing them but you'll see  how much they want it, Words are of little with no Act